Doc, I know where you are coming from but they are not all bad. Realy. Anyway, here is what I accomplished: 1) At a minimum I conflicted the best divorce atty in town from the case should she seek to file(Doc if you are in a small community you should consider the same); 2) I know where I stand; 3) Also, if she does file, I wont have to scramble around to find someone.