Robx,,, what would your response be to the W if the W then states, "well H, since you agree, then lets go and get this D done ASAP, over and done with right now!" I'm asking because that is something along the lines my W would probably say..
I'd just walk away. That is just an argument waiting to happen. Thus, the nice exterior door knob you just picked up from the hardware store. (and maybe an ipod from best buy so you can tune out the banging on the door)
If thats what she wants, you cant stop her. But you dont need to make it easy on her either.
A lawyer would tell you just wait till you are served papers then come see me.