Also, one of the problems with our marriage was that I was too controlling (I didn't feel I had control over my own life so I focused on his). This would be my taking his choice away and controlling the situation again, wouldn't it?
Glad you said that. It sure would be controlling.
Their affair is a relationship, it has to end because of one of them ending it.
Let me ask you this. How many people did you stop dating because someone told you you had too?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
