Sandi, don't close up shop here yet. I was reading your post to one of the newcomers who is considering moving out to make things easy on the family. That, of course, is what I did.

I was very concerned about what you wrote. That by moving out the courts may see this as abandonment. I have not spoken to an attorney since October. I'm 2/3 of the way to having saved the retainer.

My lease is up at the end of January and I had ruled out moving home because of the damage it could do to the girls and the fact that it would likely do more harm than good in our R.

If we D, I will want joint physical custody. Should I contact the attorney and talk over my living arrangements and how that may affect my efforts?


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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