What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Thanks so much to all of you for the encouragement. I feel like I shook things up a lot yesterday. She is dealing with a lot of inner turmoil. However, she keeps repeating and maintains that she wants out of this marriage. She is so unhappy. I am subtlely trying to be the man she wants and will respect. Maybe she will wake up one day.

I am an Anesthesiologst. I see women come in for breast enhacements an other plastic surgery procedures after the divorce. I suppose if they had started to make these changes early in their marital displeasure, maybe the WAS would have woken up.

It's tough not to pitch in and help her. I did the dishes this morning before I left for work. She had to get the kids ready and go to work herself. It's a tough life being a single mom.

She said last night that she is embarrased about what others think of her and wants to move out of state with my kids. ...Never in a million years!