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Dog feels a little crushed by the money thing. Dog learned more about the extent of ch 13 so the idea of getting out on my own biz is pushed back further.

Dog learned some family story. Don't want to share right now.

Basically mulling about stuff I can't change. I know damn better than this. I don't know why it all seemed to fall down at once.


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Dog needs to reread his signature line. Everything else is just "stuff".


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S'ok, Dog. Always give yourself processing time when a lot of sh*t hits the fan simultaneously. It's the humane thing to do.


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Hey Pooch..

Sorry to hear you're overwhelmed. Things do come crashing down at times. But on the positive side, you keep learning how to stand up better and stronger each time.

When push comes to shove, stuff IS stuff. I struggled to learn that. And what is most important in life is often intangible, like the love of your children, being the best dad you can be, becoming the man you're meant to be, having your health. Most things that are taken for granted.

You're not alone.

*hugs*

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Originally Posted By: Gypsy
When push comes to shove, stuff IS stuff. I struggled to learn that. And what is most important in life is often intangible, like the love of your children, being the best dad you can be, becoming the man you're meant to be, having your health. Most things that are taken for granted.

You're not alone.


Sound wisdom.


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Thank you all.


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Hey O'dog.

I hope today finds you doing well.


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Thanks Antlers. The Dog abides.


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Little ups and downs yesterday. Fun evening but missed a friend.

Good day today.


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It's a bad thought. Sometimes I wish I could just run away; just go someplace else where I don't have to deal with reminders. But my kids need me. So I'm not going anywhere.


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