Thanks Gypsy. Very good advice smile Many of my friends think I am crazy for sticking with him while he is divorcing me, but I feel in my heart it is time to stand by and be strong. Of course, I will have boundaries also.

I have been in IC and AA for six months now, and yes I plan on continuing. I did cut back IC to every other week and it was getting very expensive for me. I go to AA twice a week.