Isn't the past what keeps screwing up the present?
What is driving your decisions.. guilt or confidence?
Here's a helpful way to make a decision:
If it's right, say yes. If it feels wrong, say no. If you waffle or can't decide, the answer is no.
Heal yourself. Set up healthy boundaries. Respect, confidence and trust in your actions. If you're submitting to him based on fears.. then hello.. it's the same old story in a new binding.
