My W's response to the whole parent issue is that she would not feel comfortable coming by to say hi since so much time has passed and that maybe in time things between them will work out. It's funny but this has been my idea from the beginning. Let some time pass, as well as some of the hurt, and then try. I only reached out to her becuase she has been so upset about the whole thing and I did not want there to be addtional negativity. She does not seem to understand how her actions effect other people. I think she is actually blaming me for all of this...I do not get it.
I saw her today for the kid exchange and was very upbeat and positive. It actually makes me feel better to be positive.
