I found that was the biggest problem. People were telling me what to do, but not how to do it. In theory, I got the whole detaching thing, but I didn't know how.

Sometimes it is just a matter of finding the little tricks. I found that helped tremendously. But there were other things, certain experiences that also made me sit back and look at the M, and say ohhhh that is what he was talking about. Hmmmm....


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..