Cyrena, No, I haven't heard from him since February when he lost his job and wanted me to send him his resume. I saw him at the end of June in a variety store down the street (remember we both ended up moving to the same general neighbourhood) but I don't think he saw me. It was early in the afternoon and he was wearing his bathing suit, a t-shirt and riding his bike so I assume he had not yet found a job at that point. I hope the bike meant he had to sell the Audi.
That said, I guess he has a job now or he wouldn't be able to get engaged.
If I believe his story, he met her in Dec 07. I am pretty sure he is lying and I have reason to believe he met her in Oct 07, but stopped digging in order to save myself further pain. When I checked her FB it was only to see if my former stepson was still a 'friend' and then I would know if they were still together. The last thing I expected to see was 'engaged' and her gushing about her 'beautiful boyfriend.'
Snodderly, I am divorced. I filed on the grounds of adultery and got the papers in April. He was spending money like a drunken sailor and tried to make me responsible for half of his debt after we separated. He even asked me to pay half his rent after I asked him to leave our home, although it appears he immediately moved in with OW into her government-subsidized apartment. As it was, I had to pay half of the $35,000 he spent in five months romancing the OW as well as getting lapdances (and likely more) at a strip bar.
Peacetoday, Thank you for your thoughts. I will check out the divorced forum and see if I can find something to help me deal with this latest revelation.
My xh also appears happy in the pictures, and it was only a month after we split. During one of our conversations (I can't remember when but we've rarely spoken since we split) he told me that she is a lot of fun and he is really, really happy and that he thought he would miss me but doesn't.
Why I don't feel indifferent towards him and his life after that is something I am struggling with.
