I have gone in protective mode. I really cannot worry about saving my H anymore. It's time to save my kids and GAL. I am done! I am done putting him before all of us while we are all hurting. No more. I am going to go on with my life knowing my marriage is probably over but my life with my kids is NOT. I will suck it up for them. I've done it before.
(((Luv))) I'm sorry his choices are causing the pain, grief, and hurt you are feeling. Sucking it up & being strong for the kids, is one way to deal with them.
I hope you also take time to feel those and gain your strength from knowing you will come out the other side of this stronger and wiser.
I will be praying for your strength in handling this situation in an honorable and respectful (to yourself) way.
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.