Calling out the Piecers

[dday101798]

She does still spend a bit more time with her girfriends than I'd care for, but I guess technically I can't say too much about that.

Ummm...you are Piecing. Why can't you say anything about that?

And ironically, last night, I did. Went to pick her up for dinner and her girlfriends were still there, just had gotten off work and one came out, the catalyst friend as I call her, and she was acting weird, and then (x)W and the other came out laughing and giggling and carrying on and I could tell on the spot and called it, they were higher than kites, and I simply will not tolerate it, PERIOD. That tells me the little party girl in her is still not laid to rest and needless to say she was in the cross-hairs all night. By the end of the night, she knows, that is a 100% deal breaker. I can not stand the person she becomes and the things she does like that. We are supposed to meet up without the kids tonight for a few drinks and talk New Years plans out and I will re-affirm her, if it happens again, the show is over.

On a seperate note. This day is off to a horrible start. To recap: In September I started to notice a numbness in my left hand that co-incidently on (x)W's b-day spread throughout my entire left arm, promting a call to the hospital which advised me to go to the ER immediately. Nothing became of it, but the numbness continued. Upon my follow up, they ran a EKG, clean. Bloodwork, good, but 1 test came back "slightly out of normal, but not of major conern" and head CT "good, pending conclusive review". Since then the numbness in my hand hasn't changed and received random calls from the Dr's office to "check in". But everything is "ok" right? This morning, I find a letter on the kitchen island from the Dr's office that now, "CT shows an abnormality and to come in for an MRI asap". What the F@#K? THIS is why I don't go to doctors. They tell you one thing, then revert to another.