I had a huge backslide yesterday and I confronted the OW. Not good, I know, however, we compared notes and he had been lying to her as well as me and she was VERY upset that he and I were still ML. I also did something a little out of character. Since she is 22 and still living off her parents, I did tell her that if the relationship and communication did not stop then I would send all my PI stuff to her mom and dad. Was this a huge screw up???? I couldn't help myself because they were rubbing their affair in my face. H doesn't know it yet, but he's in for a real rude awakening with OW I'm pretty sure. She was terrified at the thought of all of this being made public to EVERYONE.
