First thank you for taking the time to write this. I'm going to print it off and carry it with me in my purse as a reminder to read when times get tough. I found myself nodding throughout reading say yes! yes! The suggestions were exactly what I needed. People throw out words like boundaries, detach, etc and to someone who like me has never been successful with either I have no idea how to even begin to do them. I've been reading a great book called Boundaries, recommend it to anyone!
I'm also going to share your words with a great friend of mine in a similar situation. What a help you've become for me.
How long were you guys married? Any children? Thank you again you have no idea how much you've helped.