CTH, it DOES get confusing when you read so many differing opinions/advice re: your sitch. I guess you just have to take what you feel is best and apply it. It can be quite confusing. And I noticed in your sig, it says Feb was when your bomb dropped. Not sure what it is about that month but Feb was when I had a very defining moment in my M. As did one of my girlfriends. Crazy, huh? Even crazier to think that was almost 11 months ago. Wow.
