I'm glad I moved back. The timing for me was right, I could have gone back earlier, but I was not properly prepared or in the proper mind set to do effective DB, GAL etc..
Given the advice from the folks here, I made an informed decisive choice of what to do and had a plan, you can read the results of my actions on my W part..
"As for the crazy psycho hissy fit bat$hit crazy that you think you're expecting, multiply it by a factor of 10 and then at least you will be expecting it." S McQ
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09