Do I belong here?

[peacetoday]

Kai
try to NOT go on facbook
It used to bother me so much to know the OW and H were happy
at some points during the crises ( beginning) xh seemed content and looked well
It bothered me and most of us to think about the OW having our h
and getting thenm to the point of leaving the family
it ias not what is seems
MY xh too had a horrible childhood
now my xh has lost it all
he has not looked happy for a long time
I believe they come to a place where they know and the running will only work for a short time
yet they refuse to look at themselves
they choose the path that appears fun and it probably is for a time
no one can make anyone work on themselves
only the person has to chose the road, seek help
it isnt about you
you know that
hang in
keep working on yourself

as snodderly says, you never know
some was return d or not
we lbs all seem to get better in time
we heala, change and grow and in many cases create new lives and new R that work
peace