Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
At this point, wouldn't it be better for me to just file for D and seek joint physical custody?

If that is what you want and it would make you happy then Yes. If you answer No, then it is in your best interest to break up the affair and spent more time with your children.

DDogs just moved back home. His wife is throwing a pissy fit. WAH WAH WAH. "I cant walk all over. I am not getting my way. I cant fool around behind your back while you pay my rent." WAH WAH WAH. I have little respect for woman like that. I have ALOT of respect for men who do not allow that to happen to them. Look at that statement through your wifes eyes. Do you think she respects a man who she can boss around and keep from his own house while she's planning trips to party in Sturgis?

from above,
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To Quote you:
"I've been hammered by some on these boards for being too nice and the nice guy approach doesn't work. So what's the opposite?

CONFIDENCE. SELF RESPECT. DECISIVENESS. KNOW YOURSELF!