Whenever he’s out with OW and whenever he’s distancing himself, I tried to think that he’s being adopted by alien or evil and that helps to cut the pain.
His behavior, it is called cheater's mentality. Realize, there are no such thing as aliens; Infatuation is a powerful emotion, however.
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I don’t think he’s not going to give up the OW
Then you need to give him up. Stop all pursuit, pressure, love, emotional connection. push him towards the OW. SHE IS NEEDY. She will destroy their relationship with pressure and demands. It will sicken him and he will lose interest. Then he will come around to you and realize he got dumped and he will be a man without a prize. We will find him on this board, and the best we can advice is you cheated on your wife what do you expect. Start begging.
Going back to the OW, she will be like
"You are done with your wife right. What did the two of you talk about. You love me dont you. I emailed you 100 times yesterday why did you only response to one. You love me dont you. You are not having sex with your wife are you? You are. I hate you, no I love you. You love me dont you? When are you going to divorce your wife. I have a future all planned out for us."
and he will RUN. We all run from that kind of pursuit.
Use this time to "KNOW YOURSELF" and decide if you really want him back.
