Leavie it alone. If you stick your nose in it, you will just push them closer. You've got kids, are they teenagers? If so, you know the drill, they bring someone home you really don't like, if you let them know....I tell you right now, they are "in love" and it's "the one". Treat this the same. Keep your mouth closed.
If you find yourself wanting to say something you even think you shouldn't, don't. Go for a workout or a long walk. It will help clear you mind and releave some of the stress if only for a minute at first.
The ow, is not the problem. It's something in him. Something you can't fix. He has to do that. If it wasn't her, it would either be somebody or something else.
This is really tough. You'll need to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and hang on. You can do it.
