When H goes back to work bet he goes distant and grumpy and then barks at you like you have just been scrapped off his shoe!
When this happens smile nicely at him, and firmly say "I understand its been a hard day, but please dont speak to me like that I deserve more respect than that" and breeze off and start doing some chores and ignore him (well give him time to think about how rude he was) Give him an hour then again smile sweetly and bring him a cup of coffee, and if you think you can get away with it a stroke on the shoulder or a kiss on the cheek..
Dont fall into the rutt of giving up your going out GAL.. if you were over doing it pick two things that would be hobbies and stick to them. But also make time for H, daftest thing I did was a carpet picnic, but boy it paid off. We all get wrapped up in life, the kids and just getting through things and its no surprise we end up losing our marriages..
Also hows your lingerie department looking if its looking all sad and over worked its time to shop girl.. My H was never a lingerie man but he soon noticed when my not so attractive lingeries started being pretty and more colourful and being hung on the airer right in full view shouting "well if you dont want to play with Mrs Rabbit someone ELSE will" lol.. And boy when you wear pretty lingerie you feel sexy then you move sexy and behave sexy and believe me it gets noticed..
You had it once, you just put it aside now get it out and use it, operation GAL and get Mr H4L attention..
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
