Was talking to my dad lastnight he informed me that w would not be doing this if it was not for the elagations of my oldest.She told him she could forgive me for the rest of the stuff and could be back together.If her oldest would no have said what she said but like i told my dad if she would really look at the whole pic she would see her daughter is lieing.I mean from lieing about the boyfriend to me to drugs man her bro is a police officer and the oldest would spend summers down there babysitting and not a word i mean this is crazy all over her future husband the drugdealing pc of crude so she can stay with him my wife said she kicked him out but hes still around i guess my daughters haveing a hard time with the pregnance right now.I really dont know whats all going on for sure but i learned a very good lesson stay out of your step childrens lifes let them date who they want or they will ruin everything.But even though this all has happened i still love them every much i just could NEVER trust her again so this is why my wife is doing all of this .She is meeting my parents today i sent along a card and a few pages of thoughts and telling her i love her.I dont know how to get over this wall its the only thing between me and my wife and i would like to think if she would set down and rhink look back she could see it a lie so her daughter can stay with the boyfriend who she is marrying in april.