I can’t rationalize with the irrational and I am believing 50 % of what she says and does. DB is working. If this marriage doesn’t reconcile at least I will be a better father and a more solid person through this experience. I suppose that is what GAL is all about at this stage of the game. I am prepared for anything.
I couldnt agree more. Even if it is psychobabble... its working isnt it? lol. The last time that I saw my H, and how he hadnt changed at all, no improvements, no learning, just the same guy that he has always been, it was a major reality check, and my reality has become that I dont really want to be with somebody like him anymore! DBing may not have saved my marriage, but it definately saved my mind and made me a better person, and hopefully someday, a better W for my next M.
Sounds like it went well today, and it feels great to look good doesnt it?!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
Even if it is psychobabble... its working isnt it? lol. The last time that I saw my H, and how he hadnt changed at all, no improvements, no learning, just the same guy that he has always been, it was a major reality check, and my reality has become that I dont really want to be with somebody like him anymore! DBing may not have saved my marriage, but it definately saved my mind and made me a better person, and hopefully someday, a better W for my next M. 
