I'll give my H credit though - he keeps saying he's ready to go over all the hard stuff of our M in MC -- including having to listen to my side of things. We shall see. We've only just begun...
Another good sign = since H left, we have a schedule for S5 (H stays over here at the house on his nights). Tuesday is not his night, it's mine. I usually don't hear from him since it's just our routine. Tonight I got a txt, "Wanted to let you and S know I'm going out tonight so won't be there but will see you tomorrow."
If you've followed my sitch, not only does H disappear on his nights off from S, I usually have to track him down for his nights to find out what time he'll be here, etc. This is so unusual! He spent the last week here (vacation time and all) nonstop, so I suppose it was an extension of the time we've all been spending together - but man, that unsolicited and unnecessary text felt wonderful and is a good sign!
