You handled yourself very admirably. You took good control of the conversation. My sitch is similar but my similar conversation with the W was "batsh@t, crazy, Hissy" to the factor of 10 as per Robx.
I see your W as scared too, now that you are regaining composure and focus (GALing)
excellent! 180's are counterintuitive to everything weve become accustomed to believe,,, but this stuff does get results, not saying good nor bad, just things happen after 180's go in play...
DD
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