Hey W,

If you are able to have sex with your pissed off wife ... Well, I got to hand it to ya .."The Art of Seduction" really worked. (kidding)

At some point, we have to realize that we can't control what our spouse does. If they want to have an affair, we can do all we can do to stop it and let them know that we don't condone that behavior, but if there is a will there is a way. I think trying to control them and trying to keep track of them pisses them off more.

It sucks being here. I hate this. ..... but it is, in a way, challenging;-) (trying to be positive)


Me:49
W: 41
Kids=D14/D14/S10
Married: 15
Together: 16
Bomb: 08/26/09
Currently: separated but in the different houses.