Thanks Shock,

I have been reading the boards....for hours! laugh Very helpful, so I had to post. The advice I get from friends is not great.

I forgot to mention that we have been intimate also. Quite frequently, actually.

I have been refraining from the R talk, but I think I'm freaking a bit because D day is so close. It's so confusing to have things going so well with us and the D is still coming.