Thanks Norm, I read your sitch and like everyone, I'm sad that you and all of us are meeting like this.
Two things stood out to me. The first is that Time is on our side - what's a year or so of limbo to get to a 50th anniversary.
Got that right, brother. You/we just have to decide if it’s worth it.
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I'm at the stage now where if W was to 'see the light' so to speak I'd really be looking at the paragraph above seriously before answering.
You should NEVER say that!! That was a while back and I was just venting my thoughts. I refrained from saying it and I never will. It shows WEAKNESS.
This is the paradox. Yes, it is how you may feel. And, feeling that way doesn’t make you a bad person. In fact, it shows that you’re perfectly normal. But, whiny, clingy, needy is never attractive.
You take care my friend.
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H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec