Why does he need to know who your L is from you? Have your L contact his L. Thats what they are paid for.
Ignore everything else.
So I guess I should only respond that, no, I'm not interested in collaborative divorce. (I don't trust him and it's not in my best interest IMO.)
Ugh. I feel like this is an ultimatum from him to get me to contact him and the end of the road. Didn't get an apology or remorse from him. His guilt wasn't strong enough to wake him up. But then, my IC told me his guilt is what is making him soooo nasty and as I've heard, it's all about him and not me. I'm conflicted right now.
@newmama: I will make my pros and cons list tonight. Like Sandi said, maybe it's just comfortable to stay married. Hope is the last thing to die and just the thought of having an intact family, an available dad for my kids, hope for him to love me again... I guess it's unconditional love for him even though he doesn't deserve it.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10
