DBD did you respond to him? I don't think you should. (STALL and BALL IS in YOUR COURT) Was his last email/text the one saying his L will contact you? If so then you really don't need to respond. Did you ever tell him you didn't want a divorce? If so, then he must know.
(((DBD))) this is very scary. The only positives I see are that you will get some closure and not be in limbo if he does go through with it.
The other positive is that you have an L that you will meet with on Monday and can discuss this all with her/him. S/he will communicate with his L, so you don't have to do any direct communicating.
Again, remember that D takes a long time to complete. So if all that happens at this point is "discussion" then that is not the end, yet.
Do you know why you want to stay married? For the kids? How was he good to you otherwise? Seriously, make the list of pros and cons ASAP!
Last edited by newmama; 12/30/0902:55 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
