I plan to ask W to be completely transparent with email and internet history. If she refuses, what should I say/do?
Say & do exactly what you planned if she refused to go to MC. You see, if she refuses to be transparent....that is as good as saying she's cheating. There is no promise that she won't have a secret account, prepaid cell phone, etc., even if she says she will be transparent.....but if there is refusal, oh buddy.
My belief about the MC is that it will absolutely do no good if you have to insist after her refusal to be transparent. No heart can be as closed and hard as a WAS. I do not believe (outside of a divine miracle) that a MC could influence her at that point.
If she entered into an EA the first time due to a "void" of any kind.....then it certainly left a void after the EA....which made her vulnerable to another one. I hope you are right, but after experiencing the addicting power that an Internet A can have.....I feel doubtful.
Hope you will stay in touch and let us know.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
