Where in the world did that come from !!!

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Thats what I'm doing. As far as she knows I haven't had a single thought about her since XMas eve when I saw her last. Kids and I have been busy round the house and yard. And yeah I know I shouldn't be doing these things and changing myself for her, just gets a bit frustrating when she isn't around to see them.

On the EA, I contacted OM's W thru FB and told her exactly what was going on between them.

Like us they have 3 kids & OM had been telling W that he was not happy in his M.

Asked her not to be confrontational with him but to see if she could draw him back to his family 'quietly'. Within 2 hours he had dropped FB connection to W as well as 3 other 'friendships', all with women.

Maybe I've stopped someone from ending up here, which would be a good thing in itself.

W hasn't had any message from OM to say 'someone squealed' so I assume his W has done things the right way and I will be eternally grateful to her if that finishes up being the case.