Thanks Young at Heart for your kind and encouraged words. I'm thankful for myself (of course recently)in this situation to build my strength and characters as well as my weaknesses. I have seen people from this forum getting supports from others who're in difficulty circumstances. That's fortune. I should give my att a call tomorrow to find out how to protect my children "without using them as pawns in a divorce proceeding". My wife and I seem to have an agreement that we'll avoid at all cost to inflate more pains on our kids. But who knows because big D is a messy business. Hope that we don't have to much drama if we're on that route. Regards.
Know what you need and happy with what you've gotten.
