I was in the pokey in early april09till nov09 she filed oct 4 09 no the no contact was a judge ordered standard domestic 1yr no matter the situation verbal or assultive in nature in this state .She is sricking to it and said in april she will talk but cant promise nothing.I am holding out hope&prayer i have given her a few letters she came to my dads and got them but none sense i have been out.She will be seeing my parents tommorow for lunch and im sending a card and 2 poems self writen and an rxpanation letter of the last6 monthes prior to my pokey stay.