H is being nice being to me because he is starting to wake up. H thinks I have someone else. I have acted like I don't care about H. Friend thinks H might be thinking why bother since I have moved on. Friend thinks I need to tell H how I feel so H knows he has options.
Yep, he'll know he has options alright, & it'll likely be one that sends you right back to ground zero, making it less likely he'll think he may lose you in the future.