I agree with SD... Who cares what H thinks? You have the right to broadcast it toa nyone you want and you yhave chosen only to tell close friends & family which I think is commendable. Telling your neighbor prob isn't a big deal since they notice you aren't living there anymore.
You don't have to tell anyone you don't want to as much as you CAN tell whoever you want. Don't let him get in your head, Spy. It's like he's manipulating you not to say anything cause he knows if people knew what he's been doing/the way he's behaved, he'd lose the mask of cool (the mask to the outside world).
Treat yourself to new linens. Nothing better than going to a bed with super comfy sheets.
