Originally Posted By: KerryK
I finally have seen a picture of your STBXH here

Your email was fine.

It probably was rude to just up and leave the kids by themselves, but they are 13 and 15 so I am sure they were ok. I know when I was 15 that I was pretty independent.


Dang Kerry, I didn't know he had a self portrait done... now that would have been a great present ....oh and some darts to throw at it...:LOL

Here is the deal two weeks ago we had a home invasion on our neighborhood. This is something we should both be aware of and agree to (letting kids sleep at the house alone)..... I don't agree to it as I am only out of the house because he is in it.... and by my good graces... I don't have to allow him to come here but I know it's short term. The kids are very independent and are fine but that's something that should be communicated...kinda like the first right of refusal.... Do you think he would like it if I stayed out with FF guy all night and left his kids home alone? Sounds different that way doesnt' it?


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too