She feels bad and doesn't want to hurt me, but she just doesn't have that feeling anymore.
I heard that too and it makes it confusing when we are together and she's pleasant towards me. Some would see it as a baby step, I just see her trying to become friends.
Love is a feeling. Marriage is a commitment. I've learned since I moved out that I had unrealistic expectations. I thought good marriages had love all the time. Good marriages have commitment -- there are times it feels like the love is gone -- but it comes back as long as you remain committed.
My W doesn't believe that.
I'm in the limboland hell of just waiting it out forever or eventually filing on my own.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
