LoLa - I'm just reading over everyone's shoulders here... LoL
I have an almost S13, and, he's had two "girlfriends," one for about six months. The girlfriend's mom and I were on the same page, as well. They only did stuff w/us in attendance! However, NOW that they're broken up, I'm NOT impressed w/what I've been seeing in his txt's! Girls sending pics of them in camisoles, etc... I just had my H have a talk w/him. He was SO embarrassed!
I like the talks that make them squirm a bit.
I've lived through a D18... They need to LIVE wondering when they'll be uncomfortable next!
Good Luck!
Have a fun New Year's, whatever it becomes!!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.