So I hope you didn't take any offense to that and just realized I was trying to only point out that sadgirl is no failure in her efforts to save her M.
Kevin
No offense taken at all. It's good to read the many different viewpoints here. And I appreciate any feedback in my sitch I can get so please do a drive-by if you have time Sorry if I came across as defensive.
I agree with you that it's not failing to try to save your M. Not at all. I think it shows great strength. And it's paramount when both parties are willing to work at it in the end...
Sorry if I came across as defensive.
