But for my goals, the M or whatever it is at this point has to be secondary for me to succeed at anything else and even a shot at that as slim to none as that is.

I am in agreement with CG,

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...