Moving back in

[Greek]

I'm not going to facilitate the D in anyway. I appreciate all of the tough love, DB advice here. Please someone give input as to what/how I should proceed next. I feel the momentum shifting in my favor and DO NOT WANT TO LOSE THAT ADVANTAGE...!!!

What to do next: Move back home and don't leave again. She's probably going to come home with both guns drawn. Ok. No amount of petulant, childish ranting will change the good and solid move you just made. Only YOU can give up this ground. Don't. Don't worry about what she'll do. She'll sleep on the couch, the guest room, Residence Inn...whatever. That's for her to decide. You, the rock, will be sleeping in your bed.

I've never written about this here before but the time seems right. When we were in hell, Coach refused to sleep any place else in this house except our bed. He just wouldn't do it. So I did b/c I was hellbent on NOT sharing air with him in those days. I slept with our D12, the big sofa, the little sofa...the floor in front of the fireplace. For a long time. It wore me out. At one point, I broke down crying (to myself of course) b/c I had not had a good night's sleep in weeks. He was an immovable force. And the message to me was clear: "If you want to leave this man, the bill will come to you, Greek, not him." Talk about 2x4!

And that is what you fellas need to do if you want any chance of opening your W's eyes to what she is doing.

Greek