I've read it a few times here. What is "limboland"? My husband left 8 weeks ago and I read A LOT on this site. If anyone has any advice for me...I would love to hear it.
Thanks
I suppose the best way to describe it is a place you reach when your WAS has said they want a D, but, for whatever reason, (a) won't lift a finger to do any of the dirty work to file or move forward with it of (b) work on re-building the M. That leaves the LBS in an awful position of having to either hang around, living on what, if any, crumbs the WAS chooses to leave for the LBS, or move forward with the D themselves.
Limboland is a slow death. Maybe you can stay there briefly to catch your breath and get your ducks in a row, but it's no place to stay. But, you have to be strong to leave. Easy to stay, but not the right thing to do in hte long run.
