Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

Could he be trying to get me to talk? He mentioned to the kids that they don't want to talk to him and what would they accomplish not talking to him for a year or two?

Should I mention that I don't want a divorce? Should I tell him we need to talk? I think it might be a scare tactic of his. I won't respond until I figure out what to do. I meet with my L on Monday anyway.