That is a good point CG about what I told you with regard to your sitch. I wasn't trying to mind read either. I was trying to make sure I was getting what you were telling me. Perhaps I did misread on thinking you wanted me to D my W. I apologize for that and any other mind reading I did.
I really am just trying to make sure I am fully taking in what you are taking the time to tell me. You are the last to post to me. I am certainly appreciative. But I fill like if I don't ackowlege what I believe you to be saying, I am not showing you respect for taking them time to help me and I also feel like I am not making sure I am fully understanding and getting what you are telling me. I want to be sure I completely clear on what you are saying and I am completely understanding it and taking it in.
So I try to reiterate or explain to make sure I am not missing your points. And apparently, I am missing some of them, so I am glad that I tried to reiterate what I thought was being said so that I could be cleared up on it.
I think I see what you are saying about not caring whether or not I divorce. You are saying that I have got to focus on me and changing my life and making the D or whatever that sitch may turn into secondary so I can fully function and live my life to the best it should be lived to.
Am I correct on this? No mind reading. Just trying to clarify.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...