Depending on your beliefs about M... The point is that M is for life and that if there are problems in the M, they should be worked on. It should never be given up on. Sometimes things take longer than one would like. Sometimes a major wake up call is needed. But her point and her D12's point and my own point is that M is for life. It is the vow taken for life.
The good times of the M may have died. But M itself is a commitment for life through better or worse for both sides. Divorcing and running away to be with someone else is never the answer. Granted at times we feel like we get pushed in that direction, I have to at times. But ultimately, the best solution to M is for both parties to always try and fix and resolve issues that come up for the rest of their lives. Otherwise, they might as well just toss out the "Til Death Do You Part" and replace that vow with "Til I Just Don't Give A Crap Anymore".
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
