But isn't snooping itself a secretive activity? If I read my wife's e-mail and check her cell phone calls, I am being secretive.

Another way, I suppose, would be to say "I am now checking your e-mail (read as: I do not trust you!)" That doesn't seem healthy either....


Me:45 W:42
T:11 M:9 S:4
ILYBINILWY:12/6/09
W agrees to MC: 2/12/10
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