Hello Puppy and fellow DBers! Hope everyone had a good Christmas.

Puppy - here's the update...Things still progressing. Received a lovely card from my H on Christmas - He wrote: "I know it's been a tough year for us. But I'm looking forward to 2010. Let's make it the best year ever together. I love you.

I wish I could say all problems with the friend are gone. Her H filed another restraining order against her the week of Christmas and had her removed from their home. Classy guy huh?! However, she is reaching out to me now as well. I am proud of my H. He's being a good listener but not offering to get involved.
I don't know why her H just can't let this get over! Well I guess I do know. Money has become his god and he's on a mission to pay her as little as possible.

Anyway, I hope you had a good Christmas and that your family is well. I'm looking forward to 2010 - I hope to say by the end of the year next year that our marriage is progressing well and is much healthier and happier!

My H wants just the two of us to get away to the lake this weekend. I'm looking forward to that. Have a Happy New Year - be safe!