Yes, I want you to do all those things you stated above. I would love to see you do ONE of those things. I would be so, so proud of you because to me it would finally mean that you know you are worth it. Why on Earth do you think I still post the same things to you day in and day out?
Honestly, I could care less if you get divorced or not. The divorce at this point is so, so secondary as you have far more pressing personal matters that need to be tended to at once.
Yes, please do that list you posted. I am hesitant to think you might finally get it. I hope you do because I really do believe once you really "get" that list your life will become MUCH better (mine did!).
